Sexy underwear for men

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underwearWomen in frivolous and exciting underware: a must at swingers parties and private meetings. But what women expect men to wear? What do women find sexy underwear for men to wear? Is it a body? Made of silk or latex? A boxershort or maybe a set of shorts and body?

Research shows that nearly 40 percent of men like their wives or girlfriends  to wear sexy lingerie at home. And during swingers events, parties or dating this percentage is even higher.
What should he wear? Pants or a string?  What color? Red, black, white or maybe even gold? We like to know to know what you think men should (under)wear!


+22 #1 mnjswing 2012-04-11 15:21
I (M)normally wear boxershorts, but at parties I have noticed the ladies like when I walk around in some silk boxers, give my cock freedom to swing when I walk and ieasy for the ladies to slip thier hands into the silk and get a hand full :)
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+30 #2 Bostoncpl50 2012-04-11 19:23
I have long believed that the dress code in the lifestyle, and at too many local clubs, was a firmly entrenched double standard. Most of the women are dressed in their sexiest clubwear, and look fabulous! Most of the men look like they just spent the day landscaping the backyard. T shirts and torn jeans are the norm (ok, perhaps a bit better than that), and there isn't much sexy about that. What's up with that? it never seems to change. ladies, demand more from your men. Guys, you are showing no respect for the ladies. Men can dress sexy as well! Hell silk boxers are great. How about black leather pants and a sexy shirt? Sure, the variety is not as extensive as for the ladies, but guys, make the effort. You cannot lose!
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+19 #3 Sdc couple 2012-04-15 11:15
Same as for ladies men have to make an effort to dress to impress. Too many guys wear usual clothes at the parties or clubs,very unattractive and doesn`t make lady horny at all(don`t forget personality counts too)!Make an effort or go and wank instead!!!
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-11 #4 erickrod 2012-04-22 21:07
What about y string and tongs for men girls like or not at all let me know please
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+5 #5 kinkymisspearl 2012-06-04 09:38
Agree with Bostoncpl50 and SDC couple. Latex, tongs for men, leather, or underneath your sexy suit a white silk boxers, anytime ;)
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+17 #6 DrAllie 2012-06-23 05:17
When a man takes the time to wear special underwear, it means he wants to impress me. And nothing turns me off more at that special moment than looking at some most-ordinary Hanes or BVDs. C'mon guys, there's plenty of sexy underwear (briefs, tight boxer briefs, even thongs) that (assuming he's not a lard-ass) enhances him and the moment!
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+7 #7 Mark 2012-07-06 17:25
Definitely, sheer black thongs, briefs or boxers! Male lingerie is a must!
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+7 #8 Billy Jack not relat 2012-07-16 02:29
Hate the couble standard that men don't get to dress sexy at the clubs. Wish I had the balls to be the first. I think I will next weekend.
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+12 #9 Jim 2012-12-16 18:25
What about those of us who prefer "free-style"? I grew up wearing "tighty whities" then switched to boxers after leaving home. The first time I wore neither was liberating and comfortable...h ave not worn a pair since.
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+2 #10 James 2013-01-28 20:42
My wife likes me to wear certain panties of hers, lol.
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+3 #11 dianenjim 2013-07-27 17:35
Double standard. It's kinda like she's bi, he's 110 percent straight. Guys in USA wear boxer styles on the beach, unlike the European men.
At clubs and parties they wear regular clothes, while the women are stunning in their sexy outfits.
James made us laugh........go od comment.......l ol.
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+3 #12 Davie 2014-04-01 19:43
Most days and night I wear nothing under. Special occasions call for panties as they are sensual and feel great. Some look more male than female (masculine, not feminine) and that's what I wear for medical exams.

My Hot Wife and I wear the same size!
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+8 #13 Cher 2014-09-05 08:15
What do I find sexy in underwear on my man or any man?
It does depend on the circumstances sometimes... he goes most often 'commando', except at work, lol - and I just love it when he's undressing and that's all there is! But my next pick is nice, tight, stretchy boxers... they hug the right places... just RIGHT. The soft ones that feel very nice to the touch.

As far as dressing UP .. to go OUT - OH, please DO!!
One night we were sitting next to each other on the sofa before leaving for a club, me in my short skirt, low cut top & heels. And he had chosen blue jeans, a short sleeved, striped t-shirt, and sneakers! I gave him "the look". After all the time I took to get ready to go out ... come on guys, of course she wants you to give it something!

Plus, if the two of you are looking for others - Uh, huh...
Unless sexuality oozes out of every pore no matter what you wear, lol...

It's still nice to dress as your partner does - not match, but either dress-up, or dress-down .. together.
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+4 #14 enjoyascientist 2014-11-17 16:26
I agree with mnjswing. Silky boxer shorts also rub against my dick as I walk giving me stimulation all day long and reminds me of what is important in life. Can't beat that.
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-1 #15 HotIntentions 2016-01-19 03:42
OK Guys,
I've read all the comments about what to wear and what not to wear, and I gotta say, I still cant believe that so many men don't take the time to pay attention to details. .. I do my best to dress appropriately for the swinging parties that we attend. And, that means right down to my underwear. .
Growing up, I wore tighty whites (as a kid); then transitioned to boxers; now that I am a little older and "mature", have found a great pair of underpants called Papi.. I have been wearing them for years, and have bought dozens of pairs. They come in several different colors - black, blue, orange, striped, and are very comfortable. They have a front pouch so your package doesn't get squashed like the tightys do, the material is very soft for both you and your partner, and they look great.
Guys, take it from me, the ladies really do enjoy them... There has not been one party that we have gone to that at least 2+ women haven't come over to me and admired them.. I love that part.
And, It really makes you look like you are well endowed (even when it's cold out LOL).
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0 #16 Judge Shredd 2017-03-30 19:37
I say the men should wear whatever makes them feel sexiest. If the dude lacks confidence, it would be wise of him to ask his wife's and other female friends what they find sexy and attractive so that in trying to swing for the fences, he doesn't risk embarrassing himself; although I have only one rule for dressing up in general: Just make sure it's the right size and gives you the desired effect you're looking for. Everyone else can deal with my awesome cheekless shaping girdle and lacey thongs!
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