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My wife of 28 years and I are new to the lifestyle. We are having lots of fun... But I've run into a bit of a performance problem. At age 50 I've not had any erectile problems until we're with other couples. For some reason... I have trouble either getting it up or maintaining erections. This is a new problem for me. When I'm just with my wife...I'm good to go. I'm so embarrassed and I really want to continue our adventures but now I'm feeling too self conscious to meet other couples.
Any advice you can offer will be appreciated.