Threesome or a couple thing

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What if you want to spice up your sex life and your partner is reluctant or looks at things a different way? Who can give a better advise than you? What should she do?

"Not sure if you can help me. Both my partner and I are thinking of trying  threesomes and swinging. My issue is that my partner is looking at things by himself. This has been going on for a long time. I confronted him today and said: "I feel it's all one sided". When I tell him how that what he is doing is affecting me, he gets angry and tells me not to control him. It's supposed to be a couple thing? I need some advice."

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+12 #1 NoLimit 2017-05-31 17:43
Love/trust/comm unication is the key to swinging. I don't know your situation but from what you posted. I don't see the trust/communica tion part.

I believe you two need to step back from the LS, and work on your communication and trust with your partner.
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+4 #2 Pocahontas 2017-06-03 07:39
I totally agree that you have to step out of the Lifestyle. You may get in deeper problems if you don't fix your communication with each other. You both need to know what's going on.
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+1 #3 Bossbunny 2017-07-14 01:20
We agree too.. the only way it works is if you do it as a team. Both have to be completely comfortable especially the Queen. For this we both look at the profiles and comments from other couples before we start to share each other. More than the pictures.
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+2 #4 Kwispel 2017-07-19 09:06
Looks like he is mentally not ready yet to swing.
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+2 #5 LookAndFeel 2017-07-21 09:21
We believe in sharing when there is abundance at your own side. Don't go swinging when there is something lacking at your own side, that would be playing with fire.
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0 #6 FrankSilvyNY 2017-09-20 19:27
Swinging or having threesomes is acting a fantasy that is about having pleasure at giving extra pleasure to your partner and the ending result been all gratified sexually and as a couple.
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