I'm a single woman. Can I go to a swingers club?
To go to a swingers club with your partner is no big deal. But what if you are a single woman? We got an email from Jody with a lot of questions about that. Can you advise her or share your story/experience?
"Hi, I'm Jody. When I had a relationship we both were curious about the lifestyle. Our plan was to go to a swingers club to find out if this was something for us. Unfortunately we broke up. But my wish to explore hasn't faded away and I want to visit a club as a single woman. How to act? Can I just go and have my maiden voyage? How to dress? How was your 'first time' as a single woman? O guys, I have so many questions. Please help! Oh, I live in Florida by the way. If that's of any influence in visiting a club."
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As a unicorn, you should be able to write your own ticket. Have a great time.
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If you are looking for only couples, Saturday night is the best. This applies to bi fems also. You did not state what exactly you desire. If you may want to meet a single male, Friday nights are the best. Problem with many of the single males at clubs like the Trap, most are amatuers, or married men in town for a meeting. So be careful.
Also try meat & greets. Less pressure. There is one coming up sponsored by a couple on SDC called SOBEIT.
Dance, get loose, and simply have fun. No expectations except this!.
You can go on your own and not be afraid, "no thank you" are the magic words. If you have an open minded friend, sure ask them to join you for the first few visits. After that, you will understand as someone else said, you write your own ticket.
At some point you will need to decide, what you want. A three way with a couple, or just girl/girl play. Best for all involved if you know what you want.
Keep us informed, wish you luck and happiness!!
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