Tips for meeting couples
You have met a nice couple online. And after sending out mails, chats, knowing how often they swing, if they are healthy, you have decided to actually meet each other. Exiting. Don’t forget to ask about their expectations. See if they match yours. And choose your meeting place well.
Expectations
If you are a beginner, find out about their status. Are they beginners too? Or are they regulars? What do they hope to get out of the swinging? Are you both looking for regular encounters or just a one night experience?
Condoms
Talk about safe sex and always use condoms! If they insist on not wearing condoms you’re your date is over.
Rules
Many couples have ‘rules’ and this is for a good reason. Rules are necessary to set boundaries. For instance, no kissing on the lips, always in the same room and so. If you set rules beforehand and establish some sort of code word with your partner you can end any uncomfortable situation without feeling embarrassed or embarrassing the other couple.
Meeting
Suggest to meet in a public place, or a club. When all goes well, you can always go to your or their place. If not, it is easier to have a drink and say goodbye.
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Comments
The advise about meeting at a club is very good. We tell up front anyone we plan to meet that if they do not look like their photos, we move on immediately. False presentation is a lie, no way to start off.
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