The top 5 most common misconceptions about swingers

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Have you ever told family or friends that you are swingers? Most likely you have not in fear of possible backlash. It’s not to be discussed because people can have moral issues and might judge you for it. Most people have no idea about what swinging really is, and there are so many misconceptions about swingers. We give you a top 5.

 

Swingers are cheaters
All people who have sex with someone else than their spouse are cheaters. And they are not picky about the people they have sex with. And if both partners have sex with other people they have a lousy relationship. Also swingers have meaningless sex anytime and anywhere and are acting behind each other’s back.
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  1. Swingers are into kinky sex
    Bondage, sleazy places and dungeons, sadism. All swingers wear leather clothing and are obsessed with kinky sex.
    Read about kinky sex in the swingers dictionary

  2. All swingers practice unsafe sex
    They never use condoms and are careless in their sex affairs.
    How about the use of condoms

  3. Swingers are weird and unhappy people
    They absolutely have no family life, kids or regular job. And if they work they are certainly no advocate or doctor or have a high education. They have no loving relationship with their partner and seek their fun in sex with others.
    How about the relationship of swingers

  4. Swingers want to convert everyone
    You have to be careful to become friends with swingers because they will try to convert you into their lifestyle. Always! And when you invite them to your birthday party they show up in kinky clothes and try to talk your friends and family into swinging as well.
    Maybe your neighbors are already swingers

And now just a few true facts, according to some studies:

  • Swingers are not wild and sex crazed.
  • The average age for women to start swinging is 34 years.
  • The average age for men to start swinging is 35 years.
  • The majority of the swingers have about 14 years of education.
  • More than 72 percent have religious affiliations. Compared to 61 percent of the general population.

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PPcorn.com share some revelations from several studies, amongst them a 2000 study conducted by Dr. Curtis Bergstrand and Jennifer Blevins Williams. All figures still hold in 2016.

  • Most swingers, 89.4 per cent of swingers are either married or in a committed relationship that lasts fors for an average of 10.5 years.
  • More and more people discover swinging.
  • 78.5 per cent of swinging couplesare happier and more satisfied with their intimate life. For ‘Vanilla’ couples it’s 64 per cent.
  • Swinging increase happiness: 90,4 per cent admits that swinging adds a new and happy flavor to the lives of unhappy or bored couples. That does not imply that the relationship was bad! Most of them have a caring relationship but just miss the juice in their sex life.
  • The American divorce rate is about 52 per cent. 98 per cent of those couples are non-swingers and monogamous people.

Do you tell family and friends that you are swingers? Or have you ever tried telling someone?

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0 #1 WeekendFun561 2016-12-02 17:45
While I absolutely don't mind telling anyone we enjoy swinging, my wife totally dislikes the idea of other people knowing we're swingers. She'd NEVER talk about it with vanilla people, while I'm an advocate for the swinger lifestyle. But I have to take into account my wife doesn't want others to know, why she enjoyes swinging a lot. Different culture and up-bring I guess.
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0 #2 pussytherapy 2018-07-13 18:31
What you state is very common but it comes with consequences. Even if you are an advocate and feel proud to be a swinger you have to remember that swinging is a team game and being open with everybody may violate a silent rule that your wife may have.
She may enjooy the physical and psychological thrill that swinging brings, but bare in mind that we still live in a social environment full of hypocrisy and judgement and she doesn't want to be "looked at" or "pointed at" if her prude friends (and we all have some of those) find out.
Especially these days when the hypocrisy of our convervative friends seems to be at all time high, it is prudent and wise to measure who you disclose such intimate and sensitive information.
Respect for each other's approach to swinging will bring you more sex and more fun than to expose your wife to people she doesn't want them to know. Keeping it your "little fun secret" will make her want it more and she will be even more willing to be your co-conspirator in your sex escapades...

Dr. JJ
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