11 tips to relight your fire

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After a while passion tends to slip out of your relationship. That's no news, but how to get the spirit back? First of all, communicate with your partner about your desires and start using your imagination. We give you 11 tips to help you relight your fire.

Live your fantasies

A study at the University of Granada shows that about 95 percent of people have sexual fantasies.  Women have fantasies more frequently than man. Also the kinds of fantasies are different: women's fantasies are more romantic, men fantasize more about swinging and and participating in an orgy. Some most common roll play fantasies: Boss and Employee; Doctor and Nurse; Teacher and Student; damsel in distress and knight in shining armor.

So, spice up your sex life by living your fantasies.

1. Domination

A lot of women dream about having a man obey their every wish or being submissive themselves. So unleash your inner dominatrix or submissive self and try it out. There is no need to start hardcore. Use feathers, handcuffs, etc.

2. Sex Outside 

According to Mens'Health over 64 percent of women want to step outside the bedroom and get frisky in public. And what a thrill the risk of getting caught can be. There are plenty of possibilities to have sex outside. Think about the beach, a park, a swimming pool, an airplane or an elevator. Use your imagination and the opportunities.

3. Threesome

Having sex with two people at the same time is one of the most popular fantasies. And people make them real: the LELO Global Sex Survey reveals that about 20 percent of women indeed have had a threesome. Either with another women or another man.

4. Watch, or be watched

19 percent of people fantasize about being watched during sex.  Do you like to be watched? Have sex near the windows of your home. Want to watch? Go to a sex show or club with your partner.

5. Masturbate together

A twist on your voyeuristic fantasy might be watching your partner masturbate, or letting them watch you. It's an instant turn on. 


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6. Make a Sex Video

A Stanford University study found that women reach their peak arousal after just two minutes into an erotic flick. According to Men's Health, 40 percent of women want to make a homemade sex tape with their partners.  So get on it while it's hot. After you watch it, though, make sure to hide it safely or quickly delete it.

7. Use Sex Toys

The LELO survey shows that 76 percent of women prefer to use their Sex Toys with their partner. Also the survey found that 89 percent of men would be happy to use them. So to speak about mutual benefit: sixty-eight percent of couples both climax during intercourse with Sex Toys.

8. Visit a(strip)club

Again according to Men's Health, 47 percent of women want to visit a Strip Club with their guy.  It's exciting, sexy and you'll share the fun together.

9. Put on a strip show

To stay on theme: your man will surely love this one. But dear men, the ladies may find it just as enjoyable. Dress up in your sexiest outfit and slowly take it of...

10. Not just to eat

Use food like Ice, Fruit, Whipped Cream to play with, or cool your partner of with Peppermint. Use it in a belly button, on the breasts or wherever you like the combination of hot and cool.

11. Strangers in the night

There are many women who go wild by the idea of meeting up with a strange and mysterious man and going to some no-name motel to have untamed sex.

What fantasy you to spice up your love life?


+7 #1 Ann 2017-01-23 16:37
My ultimate fantasie is having sex with three or four guys. Not at the same time, but one after another.
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