From house-parties to hotel- or cruise boat take-over and everything in between: the swinging lifestyle community is all about social gatherings. People who host a party at home know how important food can be, not only as an icebreaker, but also to feel well and of course after playing, one gets hungry. But make sure that you serve the right kind of food. Fruit is always a good choice and some kinds of food serve as an aphrodisiac, but some kinds of food can have quit the opposite effect.
We stumbled upon an article in the Independent.co.uk where swingers tell about having sex: "There must have been 20 people, male and female, in one small room. There were no more than five or six people doing it at any one time. The rest were watching and saying: 'Oooh, that looks good, let's try that.' The atmosphere was not febrile, but almost artistic. But as soon as it became clear that people were going to have sex, the condoms came out. Everyone was digging into codpieces or leather pouches for their party hats."
You have met a nice couple online. And after sending out mails, chats, knowing how often they swing, if they are healthy, you have decided to actually meet each other. Exiting. Don’t forget to ask about their expectations. See if they match yours. And choose your meeting place well.
According to an article on the internet, cheating completely destroys trust in a marriage: "You may forgive your cheating partner, but it can be very hard to forget. Most likely you will always imagine that you are being cheated on even whine nothing of the sort is happening. There are forms of cheating that are actually no cheating at all. Yes, you will both have sex with somebody else, but it's with mutual consent: the swinging lifestyle".
As a follow up on the swingers question ‘Why are there almost only pictures of women on the profiles’ we give you some tips to create a great swingers profile on SDC.com. Remember that your swingers profile is your best tool for finding the types of swingers you want to play with. So be sure to make the most of it.
According to a new study and a recent survey from a discreet dating site finds that the Chicago neighborhood you live in could say something about your fidelity. The website has ranked the Chicago neighborhoods with the most extramarital affairs based on data from 151,000 Chicago members, registered on the site.