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Sometimes a penis is too small and even a reason for divorce. We however received a cry for help from a lady who has a problem with big penisses. What are your tips? Do you have a question about the lifestyle? Mail media@sdc.com and we will publish it in our category 'Swingers Questions'.

Hi, I have a serious problem: my man's penis is exactly the right size for me. But when we date other couples, it sometimes happens that his penis and my vagina do not match up because the penis is too big. I have tried lots of lubrication, but that doesn't do the trick. What can I do? We are almost afraid to date.

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+1 #1 Gary 2016-08-22 21:19
My wife has a problem with large girth penises also. She politely tells the man that he is just too big for her. I am not sure a woman can do anything about this. It seems especially true as a woman gets older, she is not as elastic as when she was younger. At a party where there are several couples to play with this is not such a problem because we can just find another couple. On a 2 on 2 date though it can be a bummer to get into bed and then discover his just won't fit into her. We always ask for a pic of him on hard before we agree to meet to try to avoid anyone being disappointed. Sometimes the man is content to have oral sex and perhaps have my wife suck his cock or jack him off to climax. It just depends on the couple and how willing they are to roll with the flow.
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+1 #2 Rashad 2016-08-24 01:31
For any woman who has a problem with well endowed men, a few things are important. Patience, awareness, and of course, foreplay.

Both individuals have to be patient. You can't rush this type of thing. Sleeping with a well endowed man is a learning process. As a woman, you have to reevaluate what you are capable of doing. You can't perform the same as you do with a man of a smaller size. Being aware of this will allow you to be open to new things. Be it using your hands more while giving oral or trying a different position when having sex.

Have a since of preparation. Ease into it of course and relax. Tensing during penetration is counterproducti ve. And if taking larger men is your goal, then practice. Use foreplay as a way for you to "loosen up" so to speak. Bring your toys to your play dates to get your warmed up for the main course.

Just because you have never had a well endowed man doesn't mean you won't be able to take one. Besides, there is no requirement that says, "you must take it all". Take what is comfortable and be vocal about your desires.

As for the well endowed man, gauge her boundaries. Recognize what gives her pleasure. If that mean a few inches and some finger and/or tongue work, so be it. Once she's feels comfortable with you, you'll be surprised at what she'll be able to handle.

At the end of the day we are all puzzle pieces, trying to fit with each other. With proper practices and technique, anyone can make sex pleasurable for the other.

That's my 2¢ on the matter.
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+1 #3 Lovenfam 2016-08-26 03:46
It's all depends on what you mean to big is you saying to big as in long or wide. If long then just make sure each guy y'all meet understand that he have to take it very slow and not so deep with you. No matter how good it is feeling to him he must respect your way in how to pleasure you within a comfortable way. If thickness the problem you and your husband have some toy play time by playing with a bigger size dilldo than your husband size the night before meeting and going out for some fun so you can be spreaded a bit looser and open. The key is that the guy hav to be as gentle and easy as possible even if it seems like he's making love yes that slow... Good luck and keep having your fun take it slow and easy..
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+2 #4 HungSexyGuy 2016-10-11 15:32
I'm only moderately large, and I have met women who were a bit too small for me at first, but I learned as a teenager to be gentle and take my time (I wanted girls to come back again!), and I have never found a woman that I couldn't fit into. It takes patience and control, and it has taken me as much as 20 minutes to work into some very tight ladies, and there have been several that couldn't take my entire length, so I used my hand on my shaft as a depth gauge. Over time (meaning, multiple encounters) even those eventually stretch enough to take my entire shaft.

Sometimes it's better to have her get on top, so that she controls the depth and the speed of penetration. But by all means, try! If he's not willing to be patient, excuse yourself, but I have had women who took a look when I dropped my pants and said "No, not in me!" that wound up surprised and having very pleasurable encounters.
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