How do I get myself in the mood for sex?

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Dear fellow swingers. When we go to a club or party spontaneously me and my husband are having a great and enjoy having sex. We often meet couples we like, and after our play set a date for a private meeting. That is where is can go wrong: on the date set, if sometimes happens that I am actually not in the mood for sex. Not with my husband, not with the couple in question. How to deal with this? Should I get myself in the mood?

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