How can I change her thinking?
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My wife and I have talked about swinging for several years, but she refuses to seriously consider it.We have been married over 30 years and are very committed to each other. I (husband) would like to try it, but she will not even consider meeting another couple for dinner to discuss it.The logic here seems to be "let her be in control". With her religious background, that may never cause anything to happen.So I have basically given up trying. Have I missed something? Any advice on what to do to change her thinking? I understand this is a VERY common problem among couples.
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We started by going to club, after we settled down (and stopped giggling) she grabbed my, little friend, and the rest is history.
I would recommend a gentle introduction with a nice club, followed by a bit of watching, bit of booze helped too :) she might surprise you under the right circumstance, mine sure did (I'm still laughing about the guy she chased round the club determined to give him a hand job - he picked on the wrong lady to play the sexy male stud to).
She too is very religious and it has take a lot of conversations to get her head straight, but boy is it worth every second it took. Although I'm happy for her to enjoy herself, she has yet to go much beyond a bit of fiddling with other boys and girls, but the excitement of not knowing what the next club holds is just great fun.
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