Swingers questions

Someone with no historyIt doesn't matter if you both are experienced swingers or just started with the lifestyle, you might have a question, run into a problem or need some advice about swinging or the lifestyle. And who better than other swingers can give you an answer or come up with a solution. So if you need help, just mail your question to media@sdc.com. And if you have an answer or suggestion, just type it in the comment box.


 

How can we make ourselves 'less risky' to other couples?

Help us out This time a question from a newbie couple. They find that newbies can have a difficult time to get to know other people in the lifestyle. Do you have a question about the swinging lifestyle? Need some advise or help? Mail media@sdc.com and we will publish your question, suggestion etc. in our category 'Swingers Questions. For our British readers: check the British version of media.sdc!

It has been our experience that newbies "seem" to be shunned in a sense in the lifestyle. At least that is the perception. Which is understandably in a way, as there tends to be a lot of drama as well as uncertainty. However everyone starts somewhere right?

Do you guys get your egos bruised?

Quality over quantity?In our mailbox this time a question about 'ego'. And a slightly different one than you might expect. Do you have a question about the swinging lifestyle? Need some advise or help? Mail media@sdc.com and we will publish your question, suggestion etc. in our category 'Swingers Questions. For our British readers: check the British version of media.sdc!

My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for a little over 2 years. We recently had a discussion about picking who we swing with. We are both late 50s, HWP and fairly good looking. I work out 6 days a week and am in the best shape of my life with a full head of hair. I have no jealousy about the swing part but I do have mixed feelings about who she picks to swing with.

How can we find out if we match?

More...Do you have a question about the swinging lifestyle? Need some advise or help? Mail media@sdc.com and we will publish your question, suggestion etc. in our category 'Swingers Questions. For our British readers: check the British version of media.sdc!

We know a female though my cousin, and we know that she has been playing with couples and she does not know that we are swingers. We are really interested in meeting her and seeing if we match and have an exciting time with her. Any suggestion on how to go about it.

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