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Swingers questions

Please adviseIt doesn't matter if you both are experienced swingers or just started with the lifestyle, you might have a question, run into a problem or need some advice about swinging or the lifestyle. And who better than other swingers can give you an answer or come up with a solution. So if you need help, just mail your question to media@sdc.com. And if you have an answer or suggestion, just type it in the comment box.

 

Bareback or not?

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More...Do you have a question about the swinging lifestyle? Need some advise or help? Mail media@sdc.com and we will publish your question, suggestion etc. in our category 'Swingers Questions. For our British readers: check the British version of media.sdc!

Hi, I am Jilly, 32. My man is 37. We are STD free and getting ourselves checked on a regular basis. Up till now we almost always use condoms when playing with others. Almost yes, because sometimes we play with good friends whom we trust not to have STD's either. However, we would like to go more 'bareback', just because we love the feeling. Is that a go or not?

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How can we tell we want to be friends without sex?

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Solid relationDo you have a question about the swinging lifestyle? Need some advise or help? Mail media@sdc.com and we will publish your question, suggestion etc. in our category 'Swingers Questions. For our British readers: check the British version of media.sdc!

Hello. We have met some amazing people in the lifestyle however not necessarily always attractive or in our age group. (We seem to attract a lot of those). How do you tell a couple you really like that you want to be friends and socialize with them and value their friendship however are not interested in a sexual relationship.

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How to introduce the lifestyle in a new relation?

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Solid relationDo you have a question about the swinging lifestyle? Need some advise or help? Mail media@sdc.com and we will publish your question, suggestion etc. in our category 'Swingers Questions. For our British readers: check the British version of media.sdc!

It seems most of what I read and people I see or meet are married couples. What about a single person who wants a ltr, but with someone who understands the lifestyle? I know someone who's approach has been to find a vanilla person and test the waters with them. Those have never lasted long.

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Where can we have sex on the beach?

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More...Do you have a question about the swinging lifestyle? Need some advise or help? Mail media@sdc.com and we will publish your question, suggestion etc. in our category 'Swingers Questions. For our British readers: check the British version of media.sdc and mail us your questions!

My wife and I want to make our sex life more exciting and want to go to a resort or hotel (no club) to openly have sex in the resort or hotel but even better, sex on the beach. We also want another 'swinger' get there if we wanted to. No gangbang.

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Am I being selfish?

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Someone with no historyDo you have a question about the swinging lifestyle? Need some advise or help? Mail media@sdc.com and we will publish your question, suggestion etc. in our category 'Swingers Questions. For our British readers: check the British version of media.sdc and mail us your questions!

We are experienced swingers, having participated in various scenarios. My partner wants to bring in an ex gf for a threesome. They did swing when they were together, but their exlcusive relationship ended when he wanted to date others outside of swinging besides her.

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What you should know about swinging

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And more...Estimated nearly ten million Americans enjoy the swinging lifestyle. Sometimes couples would like to start swinging because they think it can improve their relationship. We receive lots of mails asking: ‘Can swinging not only spice up our sex life, but also our marriage’? Or: ‘Who is in charge? We have browsed our inbox came up with a top 5 most frequently asked questions.

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Start swinging again after a break?

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More...Do you have a question about the swinging lifestyle? Need some advise or help? Mail media@sdc.com and put your  question, suggestion etc. online in our category 'Swingers Questions. For our British readers: check the British version of media.sdc.

For a couple of years we have been enthousiastic swingers. For several reasons though we had to take a break. We are a year later now, but it feels like we are not able to start again. Somehow we seem to have drifted apart.

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