Should I ask my best friend to be our unicorn?
What if you want to spice up your sex life and need some advice about asking a friend to be their unicorn? Who can give a better advise than you? What should they do?
Hubs and I have been in the LS for several years, off and on. We each have one best friend that actually knows, which has been great. Recently, my best friend (female) had an experience with HER friends (they took her to a big swingers club in the area). Now she's hot to trot to be our 'unicorn.'
My instincts initially say to not do it, as our friendship means the world to me. The other side of my brain says that it could be super fun and hot, I know she's not crazy, and I can trust her. She's always thought my husband was hot, too... I just don't want to open pandora's box if it's going to create tension or weirdness. He's on board if I'm on board, which doesn't help things LOL! I'd like to ask the experienced LS community their thoughts on this.