Swingers questions

More...It doesn't matter if you both are experienced swingers or just started with the lifestyle, you might have a question, run into a problem or need some advice about swinging or the lifestyle. And who better than other swingers can give you an answer or come up with a solution. So if you need help, just mail your question to media@sdc.com. And if you have an answer or suggestion, just type it in the comment box.


 

How to take the next steps?

More...Whatever question or problem you have, other swingers can help you out with an answer. So feel free to mail YOUR question to media@sdc.com and we will publish it, anonymous if you want, in our categorie 'Ask other swingers'.

So my husband and I are new to the lifestyle. We have talked to a few people but it seems very difficult to take the next step and meet.  I'm self conscious about my body and I feel that the female part of the couple could be judgmental... We eager to do this but seem like we can't get started. Any suggestions?

I want my husband to go with other woman

More...Do you you feel insecure about something in the lifestyle? Whatever question or problem you have, other swingers can help you out with an answer. So feel free to mail YOUR question to media@sdc.com and we will publish it, anonymous if you want, in our categorie 'Ask other swingers'.

My husband and i have been in the lifestyle now for 7 years now.  I give my husband full authorization to go ahead n get girlfriends and talk to other women on his own. It is a complete turn on for me.  However he won't,  he says he cheating me out of it.  I feel that him doing so will makes things even hotter than they are for us. Should he feel that way? 

How can you recognize other swingers?

More...Now we have an interesting question that in various forms often comes to us. Therefore now  in our categorie 'ask other swingers': this pressing question: how can you tell when a couple are swingers? Do you have a question for other swingers? Feel free to send an email to media@sdc.com.

My wife and I were recently on a two week 'normal' cruise, and thought it would be nice to be able to have some fun whilst on board, but we did not know who were swingers. We thought that it would be great if there was a 'secret handshake' or signal or greeting that those in the scene knew so that one could approach others without causing offense if they were not swingers themselves. What would you recommend be the best approach in such situations?

Should we start swinging with close friends?

Set rules...or not?Dear readers... just help out with this question about starting to swing with good friends. And you know: if you have a question yourself or a problem you need help with, all you have to do is sent an email to media@sdc.com.

My wife and I have been wanting to get into the lifestyle for many years, but she has been afraid to let herself go. We have made many friends but just haven't made the step.We have some close friends that are going to stay with us during the holidays and we want to play with them. He wants my wife and I want his, but I'm afraid of the consequences of our sex with them.

Am I off base because I want to swing as a couple?

Lifestyle and marriageIn the category 'Ask other swingers' we received a question from a a worried husband about dating as a couple. Can you help him out? Do you have a question for other swingers you want them to answer? Just send an email to media@sdc.com.

My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for seven years. We have had some great times and have tried most every type of combination. We have been married 14 years and together 18 years. Although I am in great shape (I am a personal trainer) and have been told I am good looking, very personable and funny, my wife feels she has always been getting the short end of the lifestyle because of me. However....

Are there Lifestyle classes?

More...Do you you want to know something about the lifestyle? Whatever question or problem you have, other swingers can help you out with an answer. So feel free to mail YOUR question to media@sdc.com and we will publish it, anonymous if you want, in our categorie 'Ask other swingers'.

I Was reading over some articles in Lifestyle news, and have a question for you. Have there ever been swinging classes offered other than online info? My wife is having difficult time understanding the lifestyle and very hesitant & defensive when I make suggestions that other couples want to meet up with us. Maybe if we could attend a class with real people who are beginners with similar concerns , it may help her understanding.

Have fun with my wife and another couple

More...Do you you feel insecure about something in the lifestyle? Whatever question or problem you have, other swingers can help you out with an answer. So feel free to mail YOUR question to media@sdc.com and we will publish it, anonymous if you want, in our categorie 'Ask other swingers'.

I have always been a swinger at heart,  but recently my wife suggested that we join the lifestyle. Needless to say I was excited to hear that as she has never shown me a kinky side to her, but everytime I mention the lifestyle now, she gets upset or doesn't want to talk about it. I am dying to have some fun with my wife and another couple. She has me confused why bring up the lifestyle start a profile on SDC, then not want to talk to anybody and get mad when I want us to play. Can anyone help me figure this out...

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