Swingers questions

More...It doesn't matter if you both are experienced swingers or just started with the lifestyle, you might have a question, run into a problem or need some advice about swinging or the lifestyle. And who better than other swingers can give you an answer or come up with a solution. So if you need help, just mail your question to media@sdc.com. And if you have an answer or suggestion, just type it in the comment box.


 

No sex in the same room, so why swing?

More...Do you like to know how to pack your sex toys?  Or do you feel insecure about something? Whatever question or problem you have, other swingers can help you out with an answer. So feel free to mail YOUR question to media@sdc.com and we will publish it, anonymous if you want, in our categorie 'Ask other swingers'.

I met my current girlfriend a year ago and she had been into swinging. I am curious and have gone to a few clubs but have not done anything. We can never agree on a couple. I asked her why she wants to swing in a different room, rather than have sex in the same room. I have not followed up on going to clubs anymore because I feel if she can’t have sex in front of me or see me have sex with a women then what is the purpose.

I like to see my wife with other men

More...Do you like to know about swingers etiquette? Or do you feel insecure about something? Whatever question or problem you have, other swingers can help you out with an answer. So feel free to mail YOUR question to media@sdc.com and we will publish it, anonymous if you want, in our categorie 'Ask other swingers'.

My wife did some porn movies a couple of years back and when I found out I was hurt, but after seeing some of them it is the only porn I like and can get off to now. We recently decided we were going to try the swinger lifestyle. I love seeing her with another woman but it turns me on more to see her with another man. Should I like this?

Am I too sensitive about swinging?

Necessity In the category 'Ask other swingers' we received a question about marriage and the lifestyle. Do you have a question for other swingers you want them to answer? Just send an email to media@sdc.com.

My question is to any man or woman in a lifestyle relationship. I have been a single girl in the lifestyle ( yes, the " unicorn") and am now married, very happily to a wonderful guy I met in the lifestyle.  I've always felt secure in my sexuality and have never suffered from self esteem issues.  However, his actions lately have affected both of those. Instead of swinging being a fun past time, whether meeting new couples or playing with couples we've developed long term relationships, it has become a " necessity" according to him to keep our sex life alive. 

Masturbate instead of sex?

Grateful??In the categorie 'Ask other swingers...' a question about a husband who prefers masturbation over sex. Please help out and do you have a question or need some help? Send an email to media@sdc.com and other swingers will give their opinion.

I would prefer to have sex every day if given the choice, but my Man and I only have sex a three times a week, not unless we hook up with couple(s) or single males from the site. We were laying down in bed while he masterbates. I used to think it was sexy and that he trusts me with his private moments, but it became a normal for us, I started to lose interest and feel insecure because I feel left out mostly. Why in the world is he choosing to masturbate instead of waiting to have sex with me??? 

Sex with other men

More...Short, but in many ways an interesting question, is the one that 'M' has for you in our categorie 'Ask other swingers'. Can you give here an answer? Do you want to share something with other swingers or need some advice? Send an email to media@sdc.com.

Is it common for men to send their wives or girlfriends out to have sex with other men? If yes, is it common to send them out to have sex with their friend?

How would people react to a smaller penis?

More...This time in our category 'Ask other swingers'  a question about the size of a penis. Can you help out? Do you have a question or an issue you need help with? Just send an email to media@sdc.com.

Hi everyone. I'm sure my question has been asked a bunch of times, but I have a small twist on it. The question is about Penis Size and Swinging. We are fairly new to the lifestyle and have met some great people; we have not done full swap yet. As we look through all the profiles, pictures and videos on SDC we noticed that most of the males have some pretty sizable Penises; it is rare that we see a smaller sized one. How important is Penis size to people in the Swinging community? 

How to deal with fear for pregnancy

Read more and comment!This time in our category 'Ask other swingers'  a question about pregnancy and STD's. Can you help out? And you know: do you have a question or an issue you need help with? Just send an email to media@sdc.com.

We have been married for 14 years, 2 kids. Our sex life is routine, stagnant and not on a regular basis. I had been slowly making progress in changing her mind on trying new sexual activities. Taking xxx pictures, performing on cam and we went to a swingers club 4 times (stayed with ourselves).  We have never been with another couple or person.

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