Swingers questions

Happy, but...It doesn't matter if you both are experienced swingers or just started with the lifestyle, you might have a question, run into a problem or need some advice about swinging or the lifestyle. And who better than other swingers can give you an answer or come up with a solution. So if you need help, just mail your question to media@sdc.com. And if you have an answer or suggestion, just type it in the comment box.


 

Etiquette in swingers clubs?

Read more!This time in the category "My question is ..."  a question about etiquette. Do you need some advice from other swingers yourself, or when you have a question or problem you need help with? Just send an email to media@sdc.com.

We have been having great sex for over 28 years. We used to play with friends, but now find ourselves getting back into the desire to  meet new friends. We visited our first club. It was great and the couple we met worked out perfect. With so many naked people hanging around I saw every type of body and age range. We all had fun.

Judging on peoples weight

Read more!This time Twobi2 has a question for other swingers in the category "My question is ..."  It is about weight. Please advise Twobi2 and if you need some advice from other swingers yourself, or when you have a question or problem you need help with just send an email to media@sdc.com.

My question concerns how swingers judge and treat others in the lifestyle based solely on their weight. My fiancee and I enjoy swinging. We love each other and love the fact that we are able to be share intimacy with friends who place more value on friendship than how much we weigh.

How about married men and swingers?

More...Ask other swingers...and JS had a question. In the category "My question is ..." this time question about married men. Can you tell JD what he wants to know? Do you need some advice from other swingers yourself, or do you have a question or problem you need help with? Send an email to media@sdc.com.

I'm a married man in a sexless marriage.  I have got to do something about it, I have needs that just aren't being met.  I love my wife dearly and will never leave her.  But something has to give.  I'd like to explore the lifestyle, but I assume a married man cheating on his wife in that culture would be frowned upon.  Am I correct?

Plan a date with a swingers couple

More...In the category "My question is ..." this time a question about meeting irl with other swingers. Help out on this issue if you can. And do you need some advice from other swingers, or have a question or problem you need help with? Send an email to media@sdc.com.

Hello lovely fellow swingers. How nice to say this after our first wonderful steps into the swinger's world. We know some couples on SDC but we find it difficult to meet them, or others, irl. We have been at people's homes a couple of times, but we feel a little uncomfortable with that. Entertaining at our home is no option. Is it allright to plan a date with a swingers couple in a club or hotel? Thank you so much for helping out. Kisses!

What do you think about single females?

More...In the categorie 'My question is...'  a question from a single girl about single girls. Let her know what you think. Do you have a question about swinging or the lifestyle? Send an email to media@sdc.com

As a single female I have made some great friends but I also encounter people trying to use me. I get a lot of married men or boyfriends wanting to screw me thinking they can get away with it - I find this to be very annoying personally. I am here to enjoy sex because I do not have a significant other and try to be respectful of others because if not there will be a lot of drama.  Everyone thinks single girls have it made because we are in control because we have the pussy and it rules. This could be true and I don't give it up so easy. As for me, being a single girl is complicated…  What do you think?

How to deal with cheating?

More...In the categorie 'My question is...' this time 'she' asks a question about cheating while swinging. Or maybe with one of the swinging partners. Can you guys give 'she' a clue about do's and dont's in the swinging world? Do you have a question about swinging or the lifestyle? Is there a problem you need help with? Want some advice from other swingers? Send an email to media@sdc.com.  

I have been cheated on and would like to know if another swinger knows about the cheating do you look the other way or inform the person they are being cheated on. I feel there is a lot of head turning the other way. What happens is a secret. What is correct in the swinging world?

Jealous of other women

More...In the categorie 'My question is...' this time a question about jealousy. Do you have a question about swinging or the lifestyle? Is there a problem you need help with? Want some advice from other swingers? Send an email to media@sdc.com.

I (wife) have a problem: every time we go to a Swingers Club, I feel very jealous when I see good looking women and the attention they get. It makes me really insecure. My husband says I'm good looking too and yes, he is right about men noticing me, but anyhow...I like to know how I can become more self conscious?

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