More and more people discover the lifestyle

trioAn article on the examiner shows perfectly how in recent years, the standard perception of relationships has completely changed. "Modern relationships are completely different from what they were some years ago. In the modern world, people have many different mindsets, and therefore, take relationships very casually."

Divorce rates have substantially increased, and many people have been involved in other lifestyle options like swinging and open marriages. 

Is swinging your cup of tea? And how do swingers meet? And do you tell people you are in the lifestyle?

A short version of the article in the examiner:

"It is a common myth that swinging lifestyle is a relatively new concept. Swinger couples have existed in the society for a very long time. Some people also believe that only men are interested in a swinging lifestyle. However, statistics show that more women than men are involved in swinging lifestyle and hit swinging nightclubs on a regular basis. Since more people are open and frank about this subject these days, it has become quite easier for people to find swinger clubs, discussion forums, websites and parties. A swinging lifestyle can offer numerous benefits to strengthen your bond and relationship.

Key Benefits of Swinging Lifestyle for Your Relationship

Many couples turn to open marriages or relationships. However, they’re still able to maintain a fruitful and legitimate love life. For most of these couples, swinging can be a lot of fun. In addition to this, it also strengthens the bond between couples. Statistics show that infidelity is the main cause for the increasing number of divorces. Usually, only men are blamed for divorces and separation. However, women are equally responsible for the increasing divorce rates.

It is basic human nature to get bored from regular and easily accessible things in life. When you’ve been in a long term relationship, it becomes easier to get bored of sex with the same person. Therefore, you may get attracted to other people. There’s no denying that you always have an eye for someone special and better.

Real swinger couples consider this fact to be common sense. One of the basic problems in almost every relationship is that couples never open up with each other. Most of them aren’t even honest or frank with each other. Thus, they’re unable to discuss the basic truths about sex. A swinger couple is able to easily accept this aspect of a relationship.

At first glance, many people completely dismiss the idea of a strong and healthy swinging relationship. In fact, some people still consider swinging lifestyle to be unethical and wrong. However, it’s a fact that many swinging couples around the world enjoy long lasting and healthy marriages with strong bonds. Most of these swinger couples have very strong attachment with each other. They clearly understand the significance of trust and communication.

This is the primary reason why swinging couples don’t feel shy to see their partners in sexual relationships with others. Just like every other relationship, mutual understand lays the basic foundation for a swinger relationship. Swinger couples are completely happy and satisfied about the love they share with each other.

There are a lot of regular couples who’re happy in their marriage, but don’t enjoy a good sex life. After a certain period of time, such couples get bored and this causes a lot of problems in the marriage. Swinging lifestyle gives you a good opportunity to fill this void, and strengthen your relationship. A spiced up sex life can bring your marriage back on the right track.

In recent years, many men and even women have been involved in swinging relationships. A swinger relationship provides a very liberal environment for both partners. Thrilling sexual experiences can spice up the sex life, relationship and marriage."

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-4 #1 Ron 2014-01-29 01:44
Article is reasonable accurate. But I have no idea who or what is the Examiner. Also interesting they promote another lifestyle website, and not SDC.
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+2 #2 Anybody 2014-01-29 10:46
Examiner.com is a news website and NOT a swingers website. So I do not think they are promoting another life style website Ron!
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+11 #3 Surreytwo 2014-01-30 09:44
It seems extremely unlikely that men and women evolved to be monogamous, so to us swinging is completely natural. It's completely possible to have a loving relationship but sexually desire others if the two of you are open and relaxed. Frankly it just makes our sex life better and better and has found us some great friendships all over the world.
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+5 #4 solefem1 2014-01-31 21:44
I do agree with this article to a certain extent, however, my experiences as a single female within the lifestyle does throw a slightly different light on infidelity. I have on numerous occcasions been asked and persued by the male of a swinging couple to play alone without their partner/wifes knowledge. Furthermore, I do know of a few married guys that have girlfriends/mis tresses that they swing with, yet they still wish to cheat with another single lady ! Come on guys ....you can be waaaaay toooo greeeedy ! On a brighter note....the couples I have chosen to meet are so obviously and openly in love that it has been a pleasure to have shared their sexuality with mine.
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