What is it like to go to a Swing Club?

October 18 2012 - In Lifestyle

Do you ever wonder what it would be like to go to a Swing Club?  Certainly if you have never been to one you have many unanswered questions bouncing around in your head.  Well, I'm  here to tell you to relax.  Swing clubs are very much like any regular club when you first walk in. They have a dance floor and a bar, but special are the other amenities. You will have to check their websites for specifics. I personally find that meeting people from the  SDC site at these clubs make a comfortable atmosphere for everyone.  Because if you hit if off that’s great, if you don’t, everyone will still be able to have a great time without any obligation or disappointment. 

During my experience as a hostess and tour guide at a Swing Club, I received many questions, from regular experienced members to the very newest of them all. The one question people asked me most was, “How do I meet other people and what do I do?”  My answer was, and still is: “If you see another couple you are attracted to and are interested in meeting, well don’t be shy and introduce yourselves to each other.”  During the conversation ask them what they are into and explain to them what you are looking for or interested in doing.  Tell them your fantasies, its o.k. 

Information before hand
The number one mistake that people make is not finding out this information before hand, and just assuming. Then when they get into a more intimate situation together disappointment sets in, because all parties are not on the same page. This happens quite often in the Lifestyle of Swingers , because people are apprehensive about asking such personal things.  If you do not ask, you are only hurting yourself and wasting valuable time. Communication is very important in the Lifestyle just as it is with your own partner.  Not everyone is a full-swap swinger and not all women are bi-sexual.  If you find that you do not have anything in common, then politely excuse yourself and move on to the next couple or person.  Take your time and don’t be too eager.  Avoid having a bad experience your first time around, and you will have nothing but great times thereafter.  It is all up to you.

Second question that I was asked was about, safety.  If you are conscious about getting sexually transmitted diseases, etc. and feel comfortable only using condoms with the other people involved, then be sure to ask if they use protection.  Again, you do not want to find yourself in a more intimate situation where the other party does not use and you do.  Then shame on you.

Permisson
Last by not least, get permission.  This goes along with communication for both men and women.  If you want to feel on another woman’s breast for example, just ask if it is o.k.  You will get a much better response and reaction if you ask first. If you have entered SDC, then we all know you are looking for some adventure and excitement in your life.  Use some common sense, and respect each other and that alone will take you a lot further. 

Good Luck and have a wonderful time!