Tantric Sex: orgasm for body and mind

January 08 2013 - In Lifestyle

Tantric Sex attempts to bring a couple together in a closer manner than just intercourse can accomplish. The idea is to extend your mind and body into something so deep, that will allow you to achieve ultimate sexual satisfaction. Tantra can teach you to have an orgasm with your mind as well as your body by giving yourself completely to your partner.

Believed to date back 5,000 years, Tantric sex is an ancient Eastern spiritual practice. Like Yoga it is practiced for the purpose of enlightenment. The philosophy creeps into your bedroom and can be in all aspects of your life. It is said that when Shiva, male energy, and Shakti, female energy, come into a sexual union, it is believed to be the highest point of enlightenment and the most pleasurable of emotions.

Anyone can have Tantric Sex: Just Breathe
Keep your body relaxed and your mind clear, allow your inner sexual God to be fully present. Using just your breath you can spread positive energy all throughout your body. The deeper you breathe the more the sensation will wash over your body like a sea. Although the ultimate goal is to climax that is not the point with Tantric Sex.
One of the main ingredients is to allow yourself to become absorbed with your partner. The act of having Tantric Sex provides you with the stimulation and pleasure far beyond what you would normally get with a simple orgasm.

Create the perfect scenario for Tantric Sex
Aromatherapy candles, scents and oils can help create a once dull room into your own piece of Tantric heaven. Try silk sheets or even silk lingerie. The point of Tantric Sex is making your body feel good. Try and create a heavenly kingdom that only you and your partner can rule. Set the stage for one of the most amazing evenings of your sexual lives.

Bring your body back to life
Put on some sexy tunes and just allow the music to flow through you, breathing in and out and actually feeling the music through your body. By allowing the music to enter your body you are opening yourself up to an entire body experience, therefor if you make love after this you are more likely to have a whole-body orgasm.

Just Breathe
Sit with your partner, close your eyes together and just breathe. Inhale and exhale together almost like you are breathing each other in. Then slightly rock back and forth together making two entire bodies turn into one body. As you inhale and rock back and forth tighten your PC muscles, you may start to feel aroused at this time. Open your eyes and just stare in each others eyes; let the moment consume you as you allow yourself to let go. Giving yourself entirely and spiritually to your partner will give you an amazing connection that you have most likely never felt before. You will both be in the same mind frame therefore making you more sensitive to each other. Tantric Sex is not a race to the finish line; it is slow, sensual and fun. The idea is to take your time, get as highly aroused as possible, take yourselves to the edge of desire and once you feel you can’t wait any longer give into each other.

The Tantric Kiss
Continue to rock back and forth let him breathe you in as you breath out, he will exhale as you inhale and vice versa. When you breath him in you will feel as if his inner most spirits are being put inside of you, touching your sexual organs one at a time. Each time you exhale you are sharing yourself more and more with your partner, more than you have ever shared in the past. This is a whole new way of lovemaking; you are giving yourself entirely to your lover.
Tantra is such a deep and spiritual connection that lovemaking is only an added bonus at this point, when you finally do climax the feeling of ecstasy will simply blow you away. When you finally do reach the point of intercourse, and you are so high off of your partner, give yourself a release and flow downward, just letting it all go. Since Tantric Sex involves a lot of connection, you are now prepared to release all your sexual tension.  Keep your eyes on your lovers eyes, stay connected, communicate your feelings through touch and enjoy the Tantric experience.

Tantric Sex will give you and your partner a deeper connection, will bring you closer and will keep you lusting for more as you touch each other in ways that cannot be easily achieved with just a physical touch.. One that can only be reached when you touch each others souls. Take the time to connect with one another and your own road to enlightenment will begin.