What's in a kiss...
Actually, there is quite a lot in a kiss. Why do we kiss? Because of love or just out of pure lust? And how do we kiss? If we kiss each other with love it will create happiness. And people who are happy will be healthier, not susceptible to disease and live longer. So can we say kissing is good for your health? Okay, swingers and other interested readers, let's find out!
According to Socyberty.com Susan Hughes, a psychologist from Albright College, USA recently conducted research to find the level of preferences and differences in male-female kiss. Hughes gave questionnaires to 1,000 men and women with questions related to activities of a kiss. Hughes found four major differences in men and women kissing:
- A man feels that every kiss should lead to sex, while women make the kiss as a parameter to determine whether the man is worthy of long-term sexual partner or not.
- Men like a passionate and wet kisses. While women prefer a kiss that soft and long.
- Women kiss to build ties with male partners. While men kissing to sex arouse female partner.
- Women kissing to find out a potential mate for him. While men make the kiss as a means to an end.
Good for health
Kissing indeed has many benefits for health. It's is a physical activity with effect on both the limbic system and the cerebral cortex of your brain. The limbic system is situated in the old brain, and regulates survival and sex. It activates bodily functions as the heart rate, breathing and perspiration.
- Kissing lowers blood pressure, stimulates blood circulation in the face (smooth skin!) and stabilizes the cardiovascular system.
- A passionate kiss will burn approximately 2-3 calories, so a couple of kisses a day will help you lose weight.
- Kissing is good to tight your facial muscles because when you kiss you use around 30 muscles in your face.
- Results of studies show that when you kiss often you might have fewer problems with stomach, bladder, and blood infections.
- Saliva production increases during kissing. Because saliva is a natural painkiller kissing will reduce pain.
- A good kiss stimulates the production of the hormone Oxytocin. This natural hormone makes you feel more calm and relaxed.
- Another hormone released by kissing is endorphin, also known as the body’s natural morphine.
How to kiss
Use your mouth as a secret weapon because it can be a great tool for great sexual pleasure. We know the pleasure of good oral kisses, but you can also use your mouth for licking, nibbling, biting, and sucking every part of the body. There is really nothing better than to be stimulated by a warm, wet mouth.
Face
Little soft kisses are okay, but almost nobody likes licking, biting or nibbling.
Ears
Here you can nibble, bite, suck and kiss: it can really send shivers down your partner's spine. And how about soft blowing and brushing your lips against the ear? It will cause waves of tingly pleasure.
Back of the neck and collarbones
Great to kiss your partner on the back of the neck: it almost always get people in the mood, especially women like to be kissed in the neck. Also the collarbones are sexy places to kiss and start your way down!
Hips
Sensitive: so kiss, lick and nibble to let your partner feel currents of delight from toes to head,
Breasts
Of course for woman to be kissed on the breasts and nipples is a pure sexual thing, there are also men who love to be kissed on the breasts and nipples. Kissing, licking and sucking are all recommended. And unless she or he is into hardcore S&M, avoid hard biting or sucking.
Any recommendations or tips about kissing? Share them with us!
