His and her erogenous zones

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Men and women. All with bodies but there is no ‘One size fits all’considering pleasure and how to be pleased.  Not all your sex partners are able to tell you what they want or desire. So it for you there is time to explore the top 7 erogenous zones for him and her. And feel free to complete the article with your of your partners favourite erogenous zone.

What is an erogenous zone?

It is an area of the human body that has heightened sensitivity, the stimulation of which may generate a sexual response, such as relaxation, the production of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal and orgasm.  Erogenous zones are located all over the human body, but the sensitivity of each varies, and depends on concentrations of nerve endings that can provide pleasurable sensations when stimulated

7.The head

The skin on the top of the head has a lot of nerves and that makes the scalp extremely sensitive to the touch. So run your fingers through the hair, stroke the scalp, give a nice head massage. It's both relaxing and stimulating.

6. The ears

Moaning, whispering and breathing softly in the ears... for some people it's extremely pleasurable. And don't forget licking, biting, caressing and kissing the whole area.The ears contain so much nerve endings that almost everybody experience pleasurable responses to the brain.

5. The lips

Of course, a 'common known' pleasure area: the lips. The most visible of all erogenous zones and also packet with a ton of nerve endings. They can be stimulated by kissing and licking. Kissing enhances intimacy. Therefore not everybody in the lifestyle wants to be kissed on the lips, especially when they don't know their 'playmate' well. For some reason people find kissing too intimate and reserve it for more close friends or even only their partner.

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4. The neck

The neck, clavicle area and the back of the neck are very sensitive and one of the sexiest places of the body. For both males and females almost always a turn-on. Licking, kissing, even gently bites... just ask your partner what they desire and what makes them shiver.

3. The nipples

Both men and women find that intense nipple stimulation may result in a surge in the production of oxytocin and prolactin. Those hormones can have a significant effect on the genitals. You can even achieve an orgasm through nipple stimulation! What the best stimulation is? That is anything between gently massaging the breast with one hand till biting and stimulating with a vibrator.  Just try, and watch the bodily cues to determine what she or he likes best.

2. The clitoris and vagina

Of course, these 'women parts' need to be in the list of erogenous zones. Especially the clitoris. The vagina itself is not especially sensitive as a whole; the out one-third of the vagina is though! Not every clitoris is the same and so many women, so many ways they want to be stimulated. Some like light pressure from fingertips, others need real strong stimulation. Use fingers, mouth and/or toys! And when needed, use some lubrication.

1. The penis

Stimulation to the sides of the glans and penis, the side of the scrotum and the perineum. Hard or soft, with mouth, fingers or a vibrator... watch the bodily cues as well to find out what turns him on.

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