‘Secret signs’ of being a swinger revealed
You know you are a fan of the lifestyle, but how ‘bout your neighbours? There are some pretty funny articles on the internet on how you can show, or tell that you are a swinger. We wrote down some of the ‘hints’…Do you more secret signs?
Garden Pampagras
According to SunOnline Garden Pampagras is not just garden decoration but a secret signal that the resident are into liberal sexual practices. It seems that Pampas grass sales have fallen due to the association with swingers. Is it true that Pampagras is a secret sign? What if it grows in the garden of a school? A church? A nursery home?
White, pink and purple in the garden
To stick with gardens: some websites claim that white landscaping rocks indicate if you want another couple to play with you or that you. Also pink or purple decorations in the front garden are a hidden signal of lifestyle activity. Put down some pink flamingos if you are!
Garden gnomes
They look so very innocent. But the smile of the poor little gnomes may be misleading: some websites state that they are a signal for other lifestyle lovers.
Pineapple shaped door knockers
You like pineapples? If you use them a door knocker in the shape of a pineapple you are supposed to be into swinging. Even if you are not!
Black rings
Cooper Beckett, host of a lifestyle podcast told The Stranger that many swingers wear a black ring and that the place of the ring indicates if you are open to meet other swingers or not. According to Beckett you need to wear the black ring on your right hand if you are.
We think that it’s safe to start a conversation if you see someone with a black ring. Maybe they just like that kind of jewelry.
Anklets, toe- and thumbrings
Those seem to be a symbol of alternative lifestyles too. We do question the statement that changing your wedding ring to the right hand is also a secret swingers sign. In some religions you are supposed to wear your wedding band on the right hand.
Wristbands
This is a far more likely sign of being in the lifestyle. There are bands given out to members of lifestyle clubs, such as SDC . No doubt about that.
Other urban legends
- Wearing a red ball cap
- Yin-Yang tattoo
- A fire pit or hot tub in the yard
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- Tips for meeting couples
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- Swingers Questions
